I had a guy that I chatted with that kept telling me “ I just want to choke you just a little bit” My first reaction was “wtf” he went on to explain that it was intense and that he wanted me to experience it with him and then pass judgment.
After my conversation with my “wanna be choker” I googled Choking during sex/ “erotic asphyxiation”. I found many stories and posted experiences from many women and men loved being choked during sex. Many went on to say that they include it in their sex lives regularly.
The more positive responses I read the more and more I was intrigued. I discussed it with my guy just in passing he didn’t feel like choking me was something he could be able to do. I dropped the subject.
Days later In the heat of the moment I asked my guy to choke me.. “Choke me harder” I demanded as he squeezed harder. I tapped his hand to say I had enough. Once he released my neck I came so hard I couldn’t believe it.
Needless to say choking is a part of my everyday on /off camera sex life. My advice to anyone discovering a new act/fetish is to do your homework and to always remain open to the possibilities.
